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Things that matter ... or don't matter

Read somewhere - "It is paradoxical that as our incomes rise, we find it more and more difficult to live within our means. " (Source)

 We live in the age of abundance, where, more often than not, we have lot of options, many of which hadn't even existed few decades back. Yes we are often unhappy and keep longing for more.

 Got a car? Probably you'll want' a bigger one. And then even bigger, probably an SUV. And then probably a Audi or Mercedes or BMW ... 

 Wear a watch? You may want upgrade to a swanker one. And then probably something with a charismatic logo.

 With every increase in means, our goals also increase, usually disproportionately and our lifestyle upgrades. But at what cost?

 Does chasing all these lifestyle goals matter? Or, to what extent does it matter? Rather what really matters? Do we often ignore the trade-offs?


 Things or moments?

 Lifestyle trap or freedom that arises from financial independence?

 Showoff that five you adrenaline rush or relative anonymity with peace of mind?

 Fashionable designer  but uncomfortable clothes work 10K or a decent looking, comfortable non-descript clothes worth 3K?

 New clothes every alternate month or less clutter in your wardrobe?

 Alcohol with its aftereffects versus bland sobriety without aftereffects?


I don't have answers, but hope this provides food for thought ..

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